My book can be found at the itunes bookstore, but I want the link to it. So, how do I find the link to the book? I've been searching google to no avail.
Did you use Lulu or Smashwords to get your book at the iBookstore? If you used Lulu, go to: my lulu, my author spotlight, and then click on the black icon that says "available on the iBookstore." It should take you directly to your book (you must have iTunes installed). I don't believe Smashwords has direct links to their retailers.
You can also go to the iBookstore and search for your book by title (again, you will need to have iTunes installed).
When you find your book, click on it, and the URL in the address bar at the top of your internet browser is the direct link that you can use.
If you still can't find your book, contact the distributor. There might be a problem with distribution, either on the distributor's end or the retailer's end.
Also, make sure you've allowed enough time for your book to appear at the iBookstore.