As many of you may know last year I found myself a "victim" of downsizing. In April of last year I was laid off after 22 years of working for the same company. I was lucky! I had a good severance package and of course unemployment.
As I searched and searched for a job and filled out application after application and sent resume after resume, I began to truly appreciate having a job. I think so many of us take our jobs for granted and think they'll always be there when in reality employment is very fluid in this day and age. If you're lucky enough to have a job, cherish it. Also remember that every job has its good points and bad points but it truly is what you make of it. Your employer doesn't "owe" you anything, you provide a full days work and they pay you for it. Anything above and beyond that is truly a gift. It took me being unemployed to really see that.
I recently had a job interview that I acquired with the help of a recruiter. I've never actually worked with a recruiter before but he was quite helpful in providing some information that I really hadn't ever thought about. He provided me with a list of the 50 worst of the worst (most common) job interview mistakes. As I looked at the list I was amazed at the things on it. I thought some of them were just common sense items that you never do when interviewing for a job but if a list had to be made I guess I thought wrong. I wanted to take this time to share the list with you in case you too may be seeking employment.
So what are they.......they are:
Arriving late (really!)
Arriving too early (15 minutes is the "rule")
Lighting up a cigarette, or smelling like a cigarette
Bad-mouthing your last boss
Lying about your skills/experience knowledge
Wearing the wrong (for this workplace) clothes
Forgetting the name of the person you're interviewing with
Wearing a ton of perfume or aftershave
Wearing sunglasses
Wearing a Bluetooth earpiece
Failing to research the employer in advance
Failing to demonstrate enthusiasm
Inquiring about benefits too soon
Talking about salary requirements too soon
Being unable to explain how your strengths and abilities apply to the job in question
Failing to make a strong case for why you are the best person for this job
Forgetting to bring a copy of your resume and/or portfolio
Failing to remember what you wrote on your resume
Asking too many questions
Asking no questions at all
Being unprepared to answer the standard questions
Failing to listen carefully to what the interviewer is saying
Talking more than half the time
Interrupting your interviewer
Neglecting to match the communication style of your interviewer
Name-dropping or bragging or sounding like a know-it-all
Asking to use the bathroom
Being falsely or exaggeratedly modest
Shaking hands too weakly, or too firmly
Failing to make eye contact (or making continuous eye contact)
Taking a seat before your interviewer does
Becoming angry or defensive
Complaining that you were kept waiting
Complaining about anything
Speaking rudely to the receptionist
Letting your nervousness show
Overexplaining why you lost your last job
Being too familiar and jokey
Sounding desperate
Checking the time
Oversharing
Sounding rehearsed
Leaving your cell phone on
Failing to ask for the job
Wow! Again, most of these I thought were common sense. I find the second half of the list much more offensive than the first half. If you're guilty of any of these then you probably need to rethink your interviewing skills. Some of the items you have to use your best judgement especially where to draw the line at too little or too much. And remember, your resume and cover letter are what got you the interview but your personality and enthusiasm are what get you the job. It's really all up to you!
My advice, don't give up, have a well written resume that includes your accomplishments, network, and of course....pray.
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