Easy Tips to Survive Separation

[Bapsy Jain]

Someone asked me last week, do you have simple tips to survive separation. Something that i can easily comply with on a day-to-day basis. Since the only separation I have survived is that of my kids, I cannot really claim to have any sure fire methods of coping with the break up of a marriage. But from my experience with friends who have had their spouses walk out on them, I can suggest keep listening to Gloria Gaynor's classic of the '70's " I Will Survive" while you try to


remove all reminders of the relationship
remember all the good times you've had - this helps get over the pain of loneliness
keep busy
get a make over
see chick flicks till you feel you've no more tears to shed


According to me during a difficult time, simple suggestions work! Any thoughts :)

Bapsy